here is my story of addiction: late 80's when I was like 7,8,9yrs old I would stay awake at night couldn't sleep, couldn't wait until 4am to walk to Roeding Park here in Fresno, Ca to fish for BlueGill using fishing line I bought at K-Mart, a small hook, and a limb from a tree as a rod. I would also lay in wait for crawdads to climb up to the top of the walls of the pond and very quickly grab them and would catch'em all day until the evening when someone would eventually find me and pry me from those ponds
Lived in the ghetto, most of my family was in gangs, jail, or barely getting by . So the ponds at roeding or when the canals got low were the only fishing options for me and a safe place. So I would take advantage until my early teens when gangs, drugs, and girls were a gravitational force that got hold of me and most of the kids in my neighborhood/ Pops wasn't around and my mother passed in 92 when I was 12, So fishing would take a back seat until I got out of all that. In 2001 Got out of that life style and got my life on track college, 2 jobs, and a beautiful daughter but in 2005 got a messy divorce which got me thinking alot about my childhood and what I missed out on so on.... Woke up one day bought a rod at walmart and some worms and headed out to San Joaquin river Throwing senkos for trout ( so lost) would go out to Millerton using powerbait for bass ( didn't know what I was doing) on the LKR throwing bass lures ( pathetic). After putting way too many days on the water without catching anything frustration and Desperation lead me to stop being so prideful and stupid and ask someone. Was learning somethings from some cable shows but it was more for guys on boats and I am on the bank skunking it up really bad fishing for bass/trout/anything really. I put like 200 days on the water in 2005-2006 catching some fish here and there all bass. got brave and started walking up on guys at SJ River, LKR, Millerton Lake, Pine Flat Lake and asking questions most of the info was deception/wrong info. So one day asked a guy at walmart and he gave me a short and simple tactic and it was some of the greatest bass fishing advice I have ever got period. Of course in 2007 my catch rates jumped up and later in the year met a guy at a printing company where I worked as a janitor and he was a fly fishermen Darrin He got me interested
went out to Big 5 sporting goods and bought a 5ft fly rod??? and took it to herb bauer to line it up and he said " I have no equipment for that, its the wrong rod for trout/wrong wrong." So got the St. Croix beginner combo and started out. during that time I learned about the forums, fly fishing, and info on knots from Darrin while at work I would pass and peep out the posts and stories and he was cool as well as his friend randy. So went out late 2007-2008 and would skunk it up majorly. was doing things a** backwards should of started at step 1 but jumped to step 17 trying to tie my own leaders before how to even hold the rod.
So did like 2-3 weeks of fly fishing on the local rivers and was humbled quickly and frustration set in and summer came around so went back to spin fishing fishing for bass. The itch would come back every now and then and would go out to the park and practice cast. Then started thinking about taking my 5Wt. out to the lake for some bass fly action. So went out and casting was really hard using those big bass flies and got success immediately. So in the back of my mind I knew my first trout was a possibility now. So went back to the drawing board, learning as much about the history of fly fishing, asking alot of questions, and reading alot of books. Then asked the local fly club caster for help and got some lessons and it dawned on me how technical fly fishing is. So soaked up as much as I could. Started going out again, PM everybody possible about questions that kept popping up in my head about fly tactics, gear, conditions, everything. So about 2 months ago started hitting the local waters hard, stressing stalking, stealth, and proper casting, presentation as much as possible for my level of skill. Well it looked as if 2007-2008 would be the same no fish and no trout on fly.....
then in Nov 2008 one day out accidentally let my line drop as I was moving on to another stretch of water and bam a rainbow hooked itself on my woolly bugger. I know its not by intentional but I'll take it. in the next coming weeks I would learn more and more and the fish would come 3, 4, and then 5 in one day and then back to back days of 10 then a 30-40 fish day would let me know I have arrived. Around that time kept bugging my buddy Darrin about fishing questions. Later got a PM and he asked if I would meet up with him at the LKR with some of the Kern club members for tying and fishing. Around that time started getting into tying and again I didn't know what I was doing and the internet helped a bit but needed some direction. fast forward 3 weeks to now and man I have learned more in these last 3 weeks than I have in the last year about fly fishing. Met up with Darrin and showed me some water where I caught 4-5 biggest fish of my life, he showed me a proper nymphing tactic, we watched Jerry hopewell fly ty and it showed me how to properly ty a decent fly. Its just amazing how much you learn when you have a friend to help you along this addiction. I love it......... So sorry for the long post but it has been a long ride for me and up until recently it was very trying but well worth it, just got to give it up to my buddy Darrin, I have noticed throughout this thread in your posts there has been in most cases a friend or family member who has helped out alot in this passion we all have and man its a great thing to be out on the water with some confidence in your skills. I am just in awe of your stories and really want to thank you all for sharing. see you on the water
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I will try and make it to most of the rivers you all grew up on with my 5Wt. before I stop ticking....