by duckdog » January 12th, 2018, 10:12 am
Mike, i'm really sorry to hear that you guys had your day ruined by some punk. I hope that Chris will recover completely. It's good that you are someone who trusts that situational awareness sense that we all posses but too many people ignore. I am a BIG believer in "personal space". I don't think that there is anything anti social about being a space advocate.(space advocate, I know how funny that sounds, sorry) It doesn't matter where I am, if someone that I don't know moves into my space( defined as arms length to me), then you are crowding me, I won't like it and will move and try to increase the space. Little old ladies and children get a pass.
Some one suggested that when someone is threatening you up close to hold your hands up at chest level in a triangle , finger tips touching in a fairly passive manner I say Amen to that. By doing this you put yourself in a position to defend yourself without appearing overly aggressive. Then if the aggressor actually does throw down, and he winds up taking a ride in an ambulance , any witnesses will be apt to testify that you appeared to be trying to avoid confrontation.
I am a big believer in canines and self defense training. I love dogs, there are no finer or loyal creatures in all of creation. They can hear better than us. Have better night vision. And have bigger teeth. And for now anyway,the state of California has not imposed a waiting period for obtaining one or made them illegal.
It's hard for the average human to go from a peaceful relaxed state to red lined full fight mode.It takes a few moments to register and comprehend what's happening. Those are very important moments. the attack can be decided by then. Which put's us at a disadvantage when we are being stalked by an aggressor because he is already revved up and ready to go. It's hard to live all the time in a" ready to ignite state" . Dogs seem to be able to do this though. All of my German short hairs have been pretty much lap dogs, they curl in my lap at night when I read or watch t.v. Now when they hear something out side or someone walks up to the front door they launch off from sleepy dog mode to full protection mode ready to defend us . Like a match that has been ignited. Now unfortunately for me,too many times when they have launched they've pushed off of my groin with their back legs leaving me incapacitated. Yeah, that's fun.
There is a great book written by Patrick Van Horn and Jason A. Riley titled "Left of Bang" . It outlines the Marine Corps combat hunter program. I highly recommend it.
Mike , that situation could have ended so much worse . Great job in subduing that guy. At that moment you really didn't know if that guy was armed or not. For all anyone knew his next move could have been to take out a blade or screwdriver and start slashing . I am happy that was not the case
Stay safe everyone.