wildfly wrote:Just wanted to share an email that I got out of the blue from angie@thefishingoddess.com. This was not solicited; She wrote me this:Howdy, I fly fish for super large salmon, trout, cutbows, 15 pound plus winter run steelhead, etc... Some fly fisher wants to book a trip with me and I looked at your web site... I got a good chuckle and felt embarrassment for you and your writers... Dude, NEVER EVER take a picture of a fish you caught on a fly that is smaller than your hand. I know most fly fishers that write about it aren't very experienced, otherwise they wouldn't romanticize so much about it. But pictures of what I consider bait when I go tuna fishing 100 miles out in the ocean, makes a mockery of your web site. Get some fly fishers that can fish and have some NORMAL size trout, you know instead of being four inches more like 24...
Good luck with your articles...
hip wrote:Really, from this thread that is the response you got from this guide.
Am I missing something?
Granted being a woman guide in a boys club I guarantee she has put up with lot of crap from male anglers.
Unfortunately by growing a thicker skin and learning to deal with A-holes she has become the thing she once hated.
Here is one of my favorite posts (not mine) that kind of sums up a good deal of drama found on most message boards below......
Whenever I get full of myself I read this post and come back to earth.... jon
Fisherman will always find some topic to defend their insecurities. In fact most people living within our culture need to use some sort of defense to protect themselves from feeling inferior.
It goes well beyond what Albiemanmike is refering to, although his point coincides with this statement. Spin fisherman defend themselves against fly fisherman, baitcasters defend themselves against spin fisherman, boat fisherman defend themselves against shore fisherman, shore fisherman defend themselves against boat fisherman, catch and release fisherman defend themselves against harvesting fisherman.......and on and on.
Look at Racism. Look at class structure. Look at religion. It's all the same....all an offensive defense. Its all about insecurity. Its all about protecting ourselves against our own feelings of unworthiness. Its much easier to criticize or condemn rather than look within for our real intention to critisize. If we look at that true intention, or in other words our true reason for the need to critisize, it will lead us all to what is really bothering us. And that is usually the root of where this all comes from.
This same kind of contraversy is going on on the Atlantic Salmon forum that I frequent with arguements and finger pointing about catch and release versus the kill. It happens on the offshore forums where one guy defends what he does by critisizing the other guy. Trolling versus chunking, targeting school BFTs versus Giants, dacron versus mono, and on and on. And the bickerings are all paper thin.....just like this one. No one needs to defend what they do. And for the same token, no one needs to attack or critisize others for what they do. Even the thought must be errased. It's all down to insecurity and thus comes the offensive defense.
Live and let live. It will each of us and ourselves justice. It will be very healing. I 'try" my best to live these thoughts constantly. I do get the urge to critisize and judge because I too have been brought up in this culture. But the first step is to be honest and aware of the intention.....and that will help get all of us back to the enjoyment.
Don't tell someone to throw the fish back if they want it. It's their fish. Don't tell them its better on fly than the plug. It's their experience. Don't take any of their joy away from anyone for your sake. Any judgement you exhibit either said or unsaid is a "true" reflection of the judge himself.
Howie
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